She’s referring to playing the slot machines in a casino. Getting one or two cherries is great but it’s not going to get you much. It’s only when you’ve got all three cherries lined up that you win the grand prize.
In this case the grand prize is being on an amazing ride through life with a partner who is super sexy (to you), knows themselves and loves their life. A partner like that is an invitation to an ever-evolving life, unencumbered with the kind of relational limitations that hold both partners back from true freedom of self expression.
However, as the laws of the universe are continually schooling us, (and by “us” I mean “me”) “You don’t get what you want… you get what you are.”
So, here are three amazing “cherries” that represent the kind of jackpot man that naturally draws extraordinary women into his life.
In other words, if this is what you want in a woman… then this is who you must become as a man.
And by the way, a man can attain and embody each of these “cherries” regardless of his age, height, hairline, body type or even level of experience. So yeah, you can do this.
Cherry #1: The Presence/Self Awareness Cherry
This is a man who has done enough of his own inner work and doesn’t need his drama to “act out” within the relationship.
This means being able to really see her clearly instead of projecting ex-relationships on her. This is easily revealed to women in a man’s communication and in the way that he responds to things. It often comes out the first moment when you hit a bump or a breakdown.
It’s important to note that this doesn’t mean you have to be perfect. No one is going to go through relationships and life without getting triggered or hurt. However the way a man navigates upsets or chooses to come closer with a woman through vulnerability and transparency in the triggering moments (or very soon after) means everything.
The lack of ability to quickly come back to presence is often the demise of a conscious relationship.
If you can speak to it, own it, repair it quickly and bring it back to present moment… that is sexy. Without that, a healthy relationship is simply unsustainable.
Cherry #2: The Tantric Lovership Cherry
If you want to be with a sexy, evolved woman, then this means being a sexy, evolved man and being “right” with your sexuality. This means healing any shame that keeps you from being self-expressed and also from being able to physically match her.
If you feel blocked or held back in your sexuality, then put your attention on it. There are tons of resources out there to help you feel confident about being able to meet an empowered woman in her sexuality.
Women who know the importance of a healthy body and a healthy sexual relationship also understand that a healthy flow of sexual energy in their partnership is critical to having a “vitality” infused life.
They want a partner who wants that quality of life with them.
Cherry #3: The Sovereignty Cherry
One of the definitions of sovereignty is a person who has supreme power or authority over their own world. This doesn’t mean you have to be rich or super gorgeous or even have your life all figured out. It just means that you experience your wholeness and that you are the sole writer of the script of your life. And while no one is perfect, self aware or embodied… evolving women can tell the degree to which you are your own man.
Do you have your friends, community, passion and purpose? The opposite side of this is the classic scene where someone says, “If you’re not with me I will be broken and I won’t have anything to live for”.
So if you’re living in your sovereignty then you’re already “the Ice Cream Sundae” and your partner is the cherry on top. That means you’re coming to the party saying, “Hey, I’m great. I’ve got an Ice Cream Sundae!” You’re not making her the source of your own happiness, you’ve already got that, and the cherry is just more beauty on top of an already awesome life.
BTW, does this apply to women seeking a man? Yep, sure does. If you’re a woman reading this and you want your Three Cherry Dreamboat then you need to do the work as well to be a match for your man. When it all comes down to it, no one is responsible for our evolution but us so whether you’re a man or a woman and this is what you want then it’s time to hop on the train to “Cherrytown.”
Cuz, we don’t get what we want… we get what we are.
Be the cherry,
P.S. If you get the concepts I’m talking about here BUT don’t know how to fully embody them in your own life then let’s talk. This link will set you up for a free session. If a Three Cherry Jackpot is the man you came here to be then let’s get you there.